This is just something that bothers me. If you love someone, and have chosen to spend your life with them (or …if you’re one of those skittish of commitment types…perhaps you have just chosen to spend your ‘now’ with them…that’s fine too).
Then act like it damnit.
Don’t speak poorly of your beloved, don’t talk about them like it’s a chore to be with them, don’t complain about them while you are out with your friends. If you do, then perhaps you should choose someone else…or better still, perhaps your beloved should.
(see what happens when I go out to an after work happy hour :)